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It's all about statement weddings.
It's all about statement weddings.
Since when does every wedding have to make some sort of statement? There is too much pressure in the bridal industry for every bride to have EVERY PERFECT DETAIL. If every bride had that, the next trend would probably be minimalist weddings -- probably like many of our parents had.
Between Pinterest, Facebook, and the hundreds (probably thousands) of wedding blogs out there, there is a lot of pressure on brides to be unique and have something that no one else has, that guests will be in awe of. We seem to have forgotten the purpose of weddings -- to join two souls in eternal happiness and love.
The frilly stuff isn't necessary. It might be nice, but who cares if your flowers are real or fake? Who cares whether your dress has that stunning scalloped edge? The day after the ceremony, I bet people won't be talking about what color tablecloth you decided to use.
Imagine something simple... Just you, the love of your life, and close family and friends. Imagine all the stress you can avoid by making a simple choice for the flowers and centerpieces. Imagine the focus of your wedding actually being you and your partner... that is what it's all about.
True love, dedication, and eternal promises... That's what I call a statement wedding.
I dont see how ppl spend like $100,000 + on a wedding.its ridiculous. I didn't have a wedding bc i wanted it really simple but no one understood so we just went to the justice of the peace. I couldn't deal with the stress.
ReplyDeleteYeah, it is already getting overwhelming, and it's only been since August! I can totally understand skipping the ceremony. I am looking forward to my ceremony but I have to remind myself to take it step by step and not let anyone or anything pressure me!
DeleteI want to get something that qill make my wedding unique and something I will always remember, but I won't spend crazy money on it go to the extremes either. This makes me thin km of all thos wedding shows that only focus on the glitz n glam but not the actual love between the couple. Thanks for the post! Sgbc <3
ReplyDeleteMy wedding looked like a couple thousands we only paid 1500 for everything including my dress. I didn't make a big deal of it only thing I would spend money on when we renew for our 10 year is a photographer for pictures.
ReplyDeleteI did spend a bit on my photographer, but she will capture memories that will last forever. Even though the most important memories are in my heart, it's nice to have something pretty to look at, I think. That's great that you only spent $1500!!!
DeleteI totally agree with on this! It's a statement showing how connected you are to your significant other-- you don't need all the bells and whistles
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I agree! I'm planning my wedding right now,and I think keeping it simple and classic has helped my stress level so much. Now to just plan the honeymoon.
ReplyDeleteI'm planning my wedding now too! When is your date? It is way too easy to get carried away, and I have to remind myself what really matters sometimes. Planning the honeymoon should be fun! :)
DeleteI completely agree with you, Rachel, and it makes me sad to see so many friends and loved ones give into the whole "statement weddings" piece. Your wedding day is supposed to be about the love you have for one another (and if you choose to have a few themed items, they should be things that you, as a couple, dig)... not about the matching table decor, photobooth and custom flowers.
ReplyDeleteI got married before Pinterest came onboard, and I am so glad because I know I would have driven myself crazy over the perfection found on the Internet. I stressed over that a little bit, though. As my uncle told me on my wedding day, "Everyone looks to the bride. If you're frazzled and stressed out, everyone else will be. This day is about your love, not the finishing touches." A good reminder.
That advice your uncle gave you is fantastic... I am going to try to remember that everyone else's mood will be reflective of mine, so I need to chill and have fun! Thank you for that :)
DeleteAwesome post! ;) My flowers were brooches! Haha I didn't have real bouquets and my bridesmaids carried paper pinwheels.
ReplyDeleteThank you! :) Those are great ways to economize, and still super cute and pretty!
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